I thought loving and giving too much is only applicable in a romantic relationship, not to mention its adverse effects. Even in friendship, it is a bad idea to love too much. This may sound vey cliché but I guess some people are right when they say "Do not give your 100%. You need to save some for yourself."
On that note, one of my New Year's Resolution is to love and allocate more time for myself. I also need to eradicate my attitude of getting too attached to someone. Sometimes there's a tendency that I compare the things that I am doing for other people and vice versa. I can't help but ask sometimes why other people cannot return the same amount of love or whatsoever. I know it shouldn't be that way but.. I just think too much.